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from inbox 2 the blog- updated with her respo |
Hostrocket
| wassup yall?how are my folks doin 2day??well 2day we gonna do something alil' different round these parts.i got inbox'd yesterday from a female reader who shall 4ever remain namelss.?well she has a situation in which she wanted my opinion as well as the opinion of all of yall 2 help her decipher just what in the fuck truly went down with this lil situation she dealing with...so, ill post a few excerpts from the inbox she sent and yall respond with your opinions on what REALLY went down.here we go...DEAR A4H (i added that part, she aint really send it like that, lol)I met this guy on the internet.We hit it off?& decided to meet that night.We went bowling and had drinks.Started making bets and shit.One thing let to another and I went to his house after bowling.We fucked.It was MAGICAL!!!!!!!The condom came off but we didn't realize til the end right?So the next day at work, we start texting and emailing ALL DAY.(And I told him i would go get the Plan B pill just to be safe....never did but that was my intentions)I thought he was gonna hit it and quit it but he didn't.We talked everyday (except weekends) on the email and text.Then it slowed down all of a sudden and the emails became less.3 weeks had went by and we still hadn't seen e/o again.He claimed to be so busy.Now mind you, I still "owe him" my part of the bets from bowling that I never fulfilled.So one night out the blue he texts me asking when I was going to "pay up"Annnnnnnnddddddddddddddd, that's when I told him...........I just found out I ws preg right?Surprisingly he steps up to the plate, no questions asked and we both agree not to keep it of course.So i make my appointment and find out that it costs $150.I dont' have $150 so he agreed to do his part and pay $75 and left it at that.So today I asked him after all this is over, are we still gonna "kick it?"His response was, "we can kick it i think i am done with sex for a minute.been praying i need church lol"OK, ITS ME AGAIN...now she wants my opinion on the situation...1st, i would have expected u 2 do as u said and grab the plan B pill.2 me thats a priority like a mf'?especially if we aint kickin it no where near like that.so the next time i try 2 see u & u tell me u are pregnant after i was under the impression that u took care of the situation i would have had some real leery ass feelings 2ward u.?that right there is 2 important 2 be bullshittin on & since dude dont know u like that he may think that u were actually TRYIN 2 have his child so i really dont see why u would have been surprised dude stepped up 2 the plate.i know women that have faked pregnancies just 4 the money & im 1 nigga that lie will work on EVERYTIME, lol?here just take the money, no questions asked, lol.so, the fact that dude was tryin 2 cash in on his "bets" lets u know he was still tryin 2 get at the pussy at least.but u fucked up with that pregnancy shit.i think if u would have gotten the PLAN B like u told him u were yall would still be fuckin'
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ok, now thats my answer....do yall have opinions on this matter as well?lol
i know yall asses got SOMETHIN' 2 say...***UPDATE***
well turns out yall had ALOT 2 say, lol
well im giving her the chance 2 respond 2 some of the things u folks said that stuck out 2 her, she wants the chance 2 clear a few things up so im updating the blog
here is what she had 2 say in response-
"Although I respect everyone for there HONEST and BLUNT opinions (as I asked for) I do want to clear a few things up that you guys have all wrong.1.The abortion does not cost $150. |
| The abortion does not cost $150.The co-pay is $150 and my insurance coverst the rest.Im shocked that all of you spent so much time debating that cost when that wasn't even the issue.The cost is very irrelevant cuz if I was trying to get the nigga for his money, you think I would have upped the cost a bit?Just sayin2.I never said that he didn't talk to me for 3 weeks.I said we talked everyday for the next 3 weeks before I found out I was pregnant.We just hadn't seen eachother since the first night.4.I didn't tell him I was preg with an "oh by the way".I happened to take the test about half hour before he called me and I didn't call him right away because I wasnt' sure if I wanted to tell him or not.But I chose to tell him when he called me.5.We had a casual relationship and that was our agreement from jump.Like I said, we only talked during the week cuz it was nothin more, nothin less.6.Us having sex was not a bet.We had sex because we wanted to.Not because either of us lost a bet.I said the betting just led one thing to another.I am not saying that what I did was right or wrong but I have accepted my irresponsibility in the whole situation.Although I have some regrets, can't take back what happened and can't cry over spilled milk."ok, i believe?that was only fair seeing as how some of us aint hold back at all with our opinions, it was only right that she was able 2 respond &?defend herself....HOLLA AT ME |
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Last Updated ( Thursday, 17 July 2008 )
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