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Fatherless/Unforgiving Generation |
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| A good friend from my hometown Saginaw,sparked something in me to write a small?testimony of my life.I did not want to write one now until I am at the place I need to be,but decided I should,because there are so many young people my age,and older people that also had to deal with this coming up... in their early years.And it needs to be heard.It is something we honestly need to cry against and ?pray about..... and that is the homes in which the generation we are coming up in.(I was part of a broken home)
History:?As some of you know,I was born in raised in Saginaw,Michigan.Saginaw is a small town located about 3hours from Detriot,and about 45 minutes from Flint if your familiar with those areas.These three towns,Detroit,Flint,and Saginaw, are some of the worsest areas to live in and raise a family.Like many cities,there are some postive things about them,but there is a prevalent negative influence there as well.The drug traffic,the homicides have so much increased.And being born in raised in Saginaw,its pretty small for the area to be?filled with that type of destruction.When I go back home to visit,I become so?stirred??inside to see all those who are lost.The atmosphere is horrific and I honestly cant stand going there,but I believe that God has a plan for my life concerning the town.But it is a dead town with nothing going on,but people murdering each other because a person looked at them wrong,or because they are on the wrong side of town.Here we have people asking people what side are?you on,and if you say the wrong answer, they are cocking there guns back?ready to shoot you dead.If you snitch on somebody(telling the police or someone else about something you did that was wrong)they are ready to shoot you dead.I went to high school with a couple of people that were murdered...planned out homidicides to were the fellow classmates were shot over 20 times.A neighbor who I grew up with in prison for murder for?retailiation because?his brother was?killed(great guy)now his family lost a son and another to prison and have only the daughter left.?Yes, welcome to the hood that I was brought up in.The drug traffic has become so high, and I believe because the unemployment rate in that area is so high.People cant find any jobs,theyve been in?the jail system,so now they have a criminal background,and nobody wants to hire a criminal.So now we have these young men in particular out in the streets,selling drugs from crack to marijuana because they are making quick cash and now they can purchase cars(with suspended licenses)buy rims,and music systems blasting it up and down the street.Now some of theses guys have wrong license plates,no car insurance or no type of ID.This is just a little of whats going on.As the area of Saginaw,Flint and Detroit and other cities and towns this is what we are?living in.We can ignore it,but this is the real world,and we need to be praying and crying against it.Not talking about it saying did you hear so and so this or this happen to this person.Fort Wayne,the area I am living in now had about 6 homicides in less then 48 hours,and since Ive been here,never once have I heard such a thing.So the conclusion is the lack of fathers.We are living in a fatherless generation and its been going on for some time.Alot of what is going can probaly be solved if we had real men,real fathers.I agree with my pastor.I was born and raised?in a home?with two parents.But things went down hill.I love my dad dearly,and I disregard all that he have ever said to me,and all that was done to me or my family,but I had to learn to forgive at an early age.My dad is a very intelligent man.He is loving,he is kind and he was raised in a christian home with numerous of brothers and sisters.But although he possesess all this it tragically went down hill at home.My dad became? |
| I was born and raised?in a home?with two parents.But things went down hill.I love my dad dearly,and I disregard all that he have ever said to me,and all that was done to me or my family,but I had to learn to forgive at an early age.My dad is a very intelligent man.He is loving,he is kind and he was raised in a christian home with numerous of brothers and sisters.But although he possesess all this it tragically went down hill at home.My dad became?strung out on alcohol to the point were he use to physically and mentally abuse my mom.I can remember my oldest brother carrying me outside by the porch window at night,holding me in his arms saying its going to be okay..only to hear my mom screaming for her dear life until the cops came to find her bleeding from the nose down because my dad took a hot iron and tortured her with it.And she still has the scar to this day.And my dad cant even remember it because he was so drunk.Thats not even all of it.My dad was strung out on drugs so terribly that one day he passed out to where he was taking to the hospital to get treated.He had to become sober and he started taking AA classes.I can remember going to a couple with him.Looking at the times where he told me I would be nothing...the devil is a lie,my Bible dont say that....times where he compared me to my mom because when he saw me,he saw her(and nothing like her)calling me a slut,and all kinds of names out the book.There was a time where I did something so wrong,where he took me by my neck,and slammed me on the floor....yeah not even half of it.But by the grace of God,I still managed to forgive him after all of that!The way he treated me and my mom.If I can forgive,these young men can forgive their fathers who were there phyiscally in the home,but showed no parenting skills at all?or those who were not there to began with and dont even know who their father is.I been through too much with that man,but I still love him like it never happen.I have always been a daddys girl.I clinged to him like a bug.Every where he went,I was there.Now thank God?my dad found his way back to the Lord.If parents train the child in the way they should go,which is in God,they will,most likely find their way back home into the Fathers arms.And some not all parents are to be the blame.Because it starts in the home.(We hear little kids with perverted talk because of the parents.The parents needs to be slapped in the face and Im not talking about physically..yeah maybe that too..but spiritually with the Word of God,babies having babies and dont need to be having kids.But need to be taught sex is for marriage,not for the world.And what gets me is,parents are so hard on the girls,but please would somebody set some of these people free...that the boys need to be discipline just like the girls.Like my pastor said,the male is the one carrying the?stuff to fertile the egg.Sorry to be blunt,but thats what it is.)But..my dad was raised in a christian home, and he found his way back.He started going back to church,preaching the Word of God on video camera,delivering devotionals door to door.He even made me sit and read the word and lead me to salvation at an early age.He became a man? for God,but needs to get back in the groove.lol But I still love him.I am crazy about him.First time I ever heard something positive towards me was when he came into town recently.He was looking at my senior pictures and said,"Is she not the most beautiful thing".He still has issues.lol but really??he is my dad.As my friend Eulis said,its a difference between having a daddy and a father.My dad was a dad.Not a father,so I looked to my Father in Heaven who fulfills that love I have never had. |
| strung out on alcohol to the point were he use to physically and mentally abuse my mom.I can remember my oldest brother carrying me outside by the porch window at night,holding me in his arms saying its going to be okay..only to hear my mom screaming for her dear life until the cops came to find her bleeding from the nose down because my dad took a hot iron and tortured her with it.And she still has the scar to this day.And my dad cant even remember it because he was so drunk.Thats not even all of it.My dad was strung out on drugs so terribly that one day he passed out to where he was taking to the hospital to get treated.He had to become sober and he started taking AA classes.I can remember going to a couple with him.Looking at the times where he told me I would be nothing...the devil is a lie,my Bible dont say that....times where he compared me to my mom because when he saw me,he saw her(and nothing like her)calling me a slut,and all kinds of names out the book.There was a time where I did something so wrong,where he took me by my neck,and slammed me on the floor....yeah not even half of it.But by the grace of God,I still managed to forgive him after all of that!The way he treated me and my mom.If I can forgive,these young men can forgive their fathers who were there phyiscally in the home,but showed no parenting skills at all?or those who were not there to began with and dont even know who their father is.I been through too much with that man,but I still love him like it never happen.I have always been a daddys girl.I clinged to him like a bug.Every where he went,I was there.Now thank God?my dad found his way back to the Lord.If parents train the child in the way they should go,which is in God,they will,most likely find their way back home into the Fathers arms.And some not all parents are to be the blame.Because it starts in the home.(We hear little kids with perverted talk because of the parents.The parents needs to be slapped in the face and Im not talking about physically..yeah maybe that too..but spiritually with the Word of God,babies having babies and dont need to be having kids.But need to be taught sex is for marriage,not for the world.And what gets me is,parents are so hard on the girls,but please would somebody set some of these people free...that the boys need to be discipline just like the girls.Like my pastor said,the male is the one carrying the?stuff to fertile the egg.Sorry to be blunt,but thats what it is.)But..my dad was raised in a christian home, and he found his way back.He started going back to church,preaching the Word of God on video camera,delivering devotionals door to door.He even made me sit and read the word and lead me to salvation at an early age.He became a man? for God,but needs to get back in the groove.lol But I still love him.I am crazy about him.First time I ever heard something positive towards me was when he came into town recently.He was looking at my senior pictures and said,"Is she not the most beautiful thing".He still has issues.lol but really??he is my dad.As my friend Eulis said,its a difference between having a daddy and a father.My dad was a dad.Not a father,so I looked to my Father in Heaven who fulfills that love I have never had.I believe one of the issues with the young men of this generation is lacking a father.They were not around or they nevered?taught them anything.Now we have a generation ripple,"not real men to not real men."(Even making it harder for the females to find a husband,because they dont know how to approach a woman"what up sexy", baby you fine" but I urge you,please tell? |
| I believe one of the issues with the young men of this generation is lacking a father.They were not around or they nevered?taught them anything.Now we have a generation ripple,"not real men to not real men."(Even making it harder for the females to find a husband,because they dont know how to approach a woman"what up sexy", baby you fine" but I urge you,please tell?me what is that???)Reproducing the same thing over and over again.These guys are living in unforgiveness.They dont know how to?love,so they join gangs to find what they see as real love,but its not.They are living in unforgiveness,so they want to retaliate on the next person for what they did,because their heart has grown cold all because they had not a father in their life.And Im talking? |
| me what is that???)Reproducing the same thing over and over again.These guys are living in unforgiveness.They dont know how to?love,so they join gangs to find what they see as real love,but its not.They are living in unforgiveness,so they want to retaliate on the next person for what they did,because their heart has grown cold all because they had not a father in their life.And Im talking?particularly to the guys.Learn to forgive.Give your heart to God and He will love you like you never been love.He said he will never leave you,nor forsake you.When you need him,he is there even when you feel you dont need him.You can call on him.Being a young woman and a daddys girl,I can attest.I had not a father figure,but I do know that my dad cares and loves me.He still loves my mom.God saved me, and he can do the same with the young men out in the street?who are? |
| particularly to the guys.Learn to forgive.Give your heart to God and He will love you like you never been love.He said he will never leave you,nor forsake you.When you need him,he is there even when you feel you dont need him.You can call on him.Being a young woman and a daddys girl,I can attest.I had not a father figure,but I do know that my dad cares and loves me.He still loves my mom.God saved me, and he can do the same with the young men out in the street?who are?still looking for a father they have never had.There is a call for fathers,real men, and may we pray.Hope that helps some.We have to forgive people.We can not move forward with our lives if we dont forgive and still living in the past.May you all be blessed... |
| still looking for a father they have never had.There is a call for fathers,real men, and may we pray.Hope that helps some.We have to forgive people.We can not move forward with our lives if we dont forgive and still living in the past.May you all be blessed...Blessings+ |
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Last Updated ( Thursday, 17 July 2008 )
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